Ceremony: Officiants, North Fork Parks, Beaches, & Churches
North Fork Officiants
Interfaith
Rev. Michael F. Callahan, M. Div.
1170 Fifth Avenue
(631) 368-4119
www.reverendcallahan.com
Michael Callahan is an interfaith minister who officiates at religious, civil, and interfaith marriages and often co-officiates with either a rabbi or cantor. Mike was ordained as a Catholic priest in 1980 and is now a member of the Federation of Christian Ministries. He recognizes the importance of your wedding ceremony and will work with you to ensure that your vows articulate your own sense of spirituality and commitment. Before the wedding, he meets with a couple to go over the vows you may exchange. Some want to write their own; others would like some guidance. Because he appreciates the importance of the event, Michael Callahan pays attention to the details so that your ceremony goes off perfectly. When I met him at my home, he had just finished performing a ceremony at a private home in Greenport. I was impressed by his sincerity and his professional demeanor. Visit his website for more detailed information and then give him a call. He will be most happy to talk to you.
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North Fork Parks & Beaches
There is no more romantic backdrop than the natural beauty of a beach on the East End. The North Fork, including Riverhead, Shelter Island, and Southold Townships, has beaches on the Long Island Sound and Peconic Bay. Inlets and coves abound and there are even a number of ponds and lakes. Of course there are risks: the weather, noisy swimmers, off shore boats and even some pushy seagulls! It might be wise to have an alternate plan such as having the ceremony performed at your covered reception site. All shorelines have locations that offer access to non residents, though you should check with the town halls about parking and other permits required. Although no individual homeowner can lay claim below the high water mark, waterview property owners do control the area above. Access to a beach through private property is not permitted. The East End is also home to many parks. Some are quite small but have wonderful "photo ops;" others, such as state parks, have all the amenities.
Town Beaches
Wildwood State Park
Beaches
Riverhead
Riverhead town extends from the west in Wading River to the east in Laurel. A town noted for its agriculture and horse farms, it is also blessed with some lovely shorelines on LI Sound and Peconic Bay. In addition, there are some lovely parks here. One park overlooking Peconic River which has its headwaters in the town of Riverhead offers some great "photo ops." If the idea of a casual funloving wedding appeals to you, you might consider Wildwood State Park in Wading River. It has over 600 acres of hardwood forest, high cliffs overlooking LI Sound, picnic areas and pavilions.
For a listing of town beaches and all parks, go to www.riverheadli.com.
A useful website for Riverhead businesses is www.riverheadchamber.com.
Southold Town
The township of Southold extends from Laurel to Orient Point. Within its boundaries are town beaches, park district beaches, and Orient State Park. Each has its own regulations. There are a number of establishments on the water and you may make arrangements with them directly. (See Lodging and Restaurants) For town regulations, permits, etc. contact Southold Town Hall, Main Street, Southold (631) 765-1800.
Town Beaches
You are welcome to have your ceremony on any beach, but tents etc. are not permitted nor is alcohol. Although the town has no official guidelines, large weddings are frowned upon. (The Gazebo, located in the hamlet of Southold, is often used for photographs, but it's best to get a permit from the town to ensure availability.) For a full listing of Town Beaches click here: http://southoldtown.northfork.net/parks-beaches.html
Park District
All parks in this category are limited to residents except for a true jewel: Horton's Point Lighthouse. Located on a high bluff, the historic lighthouse is now a maritime museum and the grounds provide a stupendous view of LI Sound. The Wharf House at Founder's Landing, so named for its historic significance, is available for rent to property owners within the park district. The views across to Shelter Island are magnificent and the building and grounds are available for rent. For photos and a full listing click here: www.southoldparkdistrict.com.
Orient State Park
This gorgeous park boasts pristine beaches overlooking Gardiner's Bay and all the amenities you would expect from a state park. There is a pavilion available for private events. You really should go see it! For information call (631) 323-2440.
Shelter Island
This is one of the most beautiful islands you will ever visit. It has rolling hills providing spectacular views of both the North and South Forks. You can only get there by boat so there are ferries that run continuously to both Greenport and Sag Harbor. The ride is inexpensive and takes less than 10 minutes. The ferries carry cars as well as passengers, but on busy weekends, the car line can be extremely long. There are a few public beaches, but they are right along the roadway. It would be worth your while to visit Shelter Island. One bride we know drove around the island and saw a privately owned gazebo she just loved. She asked the homeowner if she could have her ceremony there and he said yes! Another bride had her wedding ceremony at Quinipet, a camp operated by the Methodist Church. Although it is used for youth programs, it is available to all and not restricted to religious groups. Quinipet has one of the most beautiful outdoor chapels imagineable. Take a look at these two websites to see some gorgeous pictures.
http://www.umcamps.org/quinipet.htm
http://www.bobmcinnis.com
The Shelter Island Chamber of Commerce also has a website, though it is not particulary dynamic. Still, it does offer useful information. The address is http://www.shelter-island.net
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North Fork Churches
The East End's churches reflect the deep religious roots of the North Fork. While it would be impossible to list each insititution here, the list below is representative of major faiths. Many churches permit ceremonies for non-parishioners; some require pre-marriage counseling. If you call the office of a church in your faith, the staff will be sure to tell you of its requirements and advise you about other churches in the community.
Catholic
St. Isadore's
Riverhead, NY
(631) 727-2114
This church is in the center of historic Polish Town and reflects the architecture and ethnicity of the early Polish immigrants.
St. Patrick's
Southold, NY
(631) 765-3442
This large church has a Mediterranean edifice that seems more in keeping with the town since the arrival of the vineyards.
Protestant
Southold First Presbyterian
Southold, NY
(631) 765-2597
Founded in 1640, this historic church is located in the heart of the hamlet of Southold.
St. Peter's Lutheran
Greenport, NY
(631) 477-0662
The interior of the church is designed to represent a ship; the pulpit is a ship's prow.
Orient Congregational
Orient, NY
(631) 323-2555
A charming country church filled with a sense of history and reverence.
St. Mary's Episcopalian
Shelter Island, NY
(631) 749-0770
Jewish
Temple Israel of Riverhead (Conservative)
Riverhead, NY
(631) 727-3191
Inter Denominational
Union Chapel In The Grove
Shelter Island Heights
Shelter Island, NY
(631) 749-8938
This lovely chapel is situated very close to the Greenport-Shelter Island Ferry landing. It is open for services mid June to mid September.
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